" I STRONGLY PROTEST ....'

"(Their English lecturer) said...
You know , you are the Captain in your presentation ! You could have told that person to 'shut up' in a nice way by saying thta he/she WILL be given a chance to talk later, but for noe , tell the person to let you finish your presentation.If this doesnt work, then wait for that person's turn to present.......
May 14, 2009 8:42 AM

**I believed that this person do not know who is

the subject of the discussion. I knew this lecturer. He is good and fair enough in everything."

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Yes ! I do strongly protest ! The above is my comment in one of our community member's blog when she expressed just how upset she was at her presentation !

That is fine with me, but the darndest thing is that , the person, intentionally chose to replace my photo with a logo with the words "Just Shut Up" clearly on the logo.

THIS IS NOT, AND WILL NEVER BE ACCEPTABLE TO ME ! Why would you deface my identity , and the person knows who I am. So what is the insinuation here ? Is he inferring something here ? Note the "Their English Lecturer". True , I didn't know he was the 'subject' of that post, but even if I do , I would still write the same thing ! It doesn't mean that I wouldn't because There is no disgrace in my comment. Theres only over-sensitivityon the person concerned!

The attempt to whitewash this unacceptable behaviour by putting some nice words about me ,is, to me, adding insult to injury. An attack has been made on my person, does it mean that I have no right or should not reply.

Again , by the same token that this deed was done without so much as informing me before hand, gives me every right to write and comment on the discourtesy done on my identity. I mean, the students even knew that that was my comment because they do read and write blogs---through my encouragement.

Just what is wrong with leaving my photo and identity intract ! Again , what is the agenda ! To protect me ? Pleeease!

So, I say again, there is also courtesy in blogging. Let me reproduce a comment I received from a total stranger asking for permission to use my one of my postings ! This is decency, respect and courtesy , which is totally absent from the blog in question !

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hasANah haLim said...

Hye Mr.Sunny.

I was blog hopping and bumped into your blog last week. (I've been your silent reader since that day as u can say.. ^___^ )

One of your posting really caught my eyes. The title is "Presentation Tips". I want to ask your permission to put the tips in my blog.

I just watched my interns did their 'viva' and I think actually they can do it better than that.

Please let me know if u permit me to put your posts in my blog. (and do let me know too if u didn't allow me to do that..)

Thanks and nice day ahead! ^___^

May 12, 2009 12:05 PM.

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and my reply , ( I have put key words in bold )

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sunnysideup said...

hasANah haLim

Hi ! Nict to know you ! I hope you won't be 'silent' after this as I really welcome and love to hear commentd from readers !

But of course , please do so . If it can help somebody out there please, be my guest.

Must say I appreciate the 'asking first'.

As you would have gathered , I'm trying to get my students to go into blogging and so far--I'm happy with the results.

Hope to 'see' you here again !

May 12, 2009 12:27 PM

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What more can I say ! Now that is lesson on courtesy !

By the way, feel free to comment here. There is no selectional persecution here. If you still fear the repercussion, then don't use your nick, use anonymous ! I have activated this facility.